You encounter several appointments (expectations) and disappointments in life. When you have an appointment, you will have a disappointment also when it is not fulfilled. Therefore, do not have appointments (desires) at all. Then, there is no scope for disappointment. Do not give importance to the form. In fact, your Atma-tattva represents your true form. Do not confine Divinity to a particular name and form. (SSS Vol.36, p. 143)